My husband Greg and I have been together for 48 years and married for 44.  Greg has Fijian heritage and I am a third generation Kiwi.  We have learned to appreciate the richness of our diverse cultural heritages also learning to confront areas that created conflict due to these differences, at times. This has meant learning to listen, care and co-create a way forward that we can both feel happy with.   We have four adult children and have also included an additional member, who we consider family.  Greg and I love to spend time with our children and their partners and the 13 grandchildren we have been blessed with, who keep us young.  We also enjoy walking our German Shepherd dog; exercising; socialising with friends and extended family and finding new places to explore. 

Together, we are passionate about seeing Couples and families grow and thrive.  We love to see couples prioritise their relationship, learning new patterns that enable success and the ability to break free from unhelpful, destructive patterns they have modeled on. 

Even after so many years together,  we both know we are not beyond needing to use the tools ourselves. The challenge of aligning our finest intentions with our actual behaviours is the not-so-easy part, however, we take on this challenge every day. I can honestly say (and I know Greg would agree), that our friendship and intimacy continues to strengthen and the rewards are better than anything we could have imagined. We know yours can too!